Saturday, March 31, 2007

Shortbus

Rating:★★★★
Category:Movies
Genre: Comedy
"Jesse, the John: You're taking a picture of yourself at Ground Zero: do you smile?"

Voyeurism, Menage, Bondage, Lesbianism and Gay Sex, Orgies, Arts, Painting, Auto-fellation, Pre-orgasms all crammed in a city which everyone comes to be fucked, a city which everyone comes to be forgiven.

I learned about this film from a friend who was disgusted enough to throw the DVD away. Being such a curious film buff such as I am, I searched for the film and watched it today. Written and Directed by James Cameron Mitchell (Hedwig and the Angry Inch), the film is also known as "The Sex Film Project" and it does contain a lot of graphic sex.

Plot Summary (from imdb)

Shortbus (2006)

Numerous New York City-dwellers come to the exclusive club Shortbus to work out problems in their sexual relationships. Rob (Raphael Barker) and Sophia (Sook-Yin Lee) are a happily married couple, except for the fact that she has never experienced sexual climax. This irony follows her to work, because she is a couples counselor who frequently has to deal with the sexual issues other couples have. Two of her patients are Jamie (PJ DeBoy) and James (Paul Dawson), a gay couple who have been monogamous for five years and counting. James wants to bring other men in to the relationship, and his own history with depression may hint at an ulterior motive. Ceth (Pronounced like Seth, played by Jay Brannon) may be the perfect addition to their family, but Caleb, a voyeur from across the street, may have his own ideas about that. Sophia visits Severin, a dominatrix with secrets of her own to reveal.
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The explicit sex that was portrayed in the movie masked the underlying tones of pervading and smothering sadness that befalls most of the characters. A shattering and painful melancholia that can be claustrophobically oppressive- from the pregnant moments of silences caught in the eyes of Sophia, Jamie and James, through the lenses of Caleb, and the cameras of Severin, to the haunting musical scoring - this film is a definite gem if one starts looking underneath all that massive onscreen sexuality. It is a love story of people with themselves trying to find themselves a place in the city that constantly eats and chews up its own citizens - a reality that seemed so jarring to the uninitiated.

If people should accuse it being a porn film - then it was the first porn film that ever made me cry.

Thank you James Cameron Mitchell.

Friday, March 30, 2007

Gaybirds by Repertory Philippines

Start:     Mar 31, '07 08:00a
Location:     Onstage Greenbelt
Filipino Adaptation of Les Cages Aux Folles.

Philippine Fashion Week Finale

Start:     Apr 1, '07 5:00p
End:     Apr 1, '07 8:45p
Location:     Glorietta Activity Center, Makati
See you Sunday in Glorietta. My friend Pia will be exhibiting Ready to Wear fashion.

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

AIESEC

http://www.aiesec.net

Bondage.

If you are given the chance of engaging in safe BDSM, would you consider it?

Yes
 
 57

No
 
 3

Maybe
 
 2


Maybe I am a latent Masochist. The prospect seems appealing to me. Being handcuffed, gagged, bound, blindfolded, tied down. I feel that it is some sort of a release of my very strong personality that I want someone to dominate me. So I am doing some readings about BDSM and I found it interesting. Here's from Wiki:


Why bondage?




Man in leather cuffs and chains during street fair

Man in leather cuffs and chains during street fair

People who find it erotic to be tied up find it so for a variety of reasons:



  • The most frequently cited reason is a mental freedom from inhibitions and responsibility since they have, in a way, given up control of the sexual situation to follow. This is sometimes referred to as a "power exchange."
  • Some like the tactile feeling of restraint, that is, the feeling of pressure or pulling.
  • Some enjoy the feeling of helplessness for its own sake. Some like to struggle aggressively against their bonds, particularly when being sexually or otherwise stimulated. There are some in this category who play bondage games that do not include a significant sexual component.
  • To intensify the experience of orgasm control or of orgasm denial.
  • Some derive pleasure from symbolic degradation (less common). People who enjoy role playing prison or mental hospital situations probably fit best in this category.
  • Fetishistic interest in the mechanics of bondage, with particular interest in the equipment and restraints used. Some of these people are interested in the look, feel, and aroma of leather and rubber restraints. Others are fascinated by the relationship between the geometry of the tie, the degrees of freedom remaining and the feelings elicited.
  • As an adjunct to other BDSM activities
  • Like hang gliding or mountaineering, some feel that bondage allows them to do something potentially dangerous in a safe way.
  • Extreme forms of bondage such as mummification some people enjoy because it is like being placed in a sensory deprivation tank and may allow the person being placed in extreme bondage to experience an Out-of-body experience.
  • In the wide range of human sexual experience, there are probably a few other reasons.

People who enjoy tying other people up are motivated by a variety of reasons, including:



  • Taking pleasure in the erotic submission of their partner
  • The feeling of trust which comes from another person placing their physical freedom in their hands
  • Wishing to please their partner, and the stimulation engendered by their partner's pleasure in it
  • Fetishistic interest in the elegance of bondage, with particular interest in the geometric patterns and symmetry (or artistic asymmetry) of the restraint
  • Using bondage as an adjunct to other BDSM activities
  • Enjoyment of the power and control one has over a restrained partner; people for whom this is a principal motivation may have trouble making it much fun for the other person.

What do you think?


In the context of BDSM, bondage involves people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure. Bondage is usually, but not always, a sexual practice. The paraphilia of being sexually aroused by bondage is sometimes known as vincilagnia.


Studies in the U.S. have shown that about three quarters of all men find the idea of bondage to be erotic; many women do as well. As with any study of sexual thoughts and behavior, the available studies are not well controlled and the best studies are now out of date.


Bondage philosophy


Perhaps the most interesting and ardent "bondage philosopher" was Michel Foucault. While it is believed Foucault had only a limited personal involvement in the practice of bondage, he wrote a number of intellectual explorations of BDSM culture. He was particularly interested in the power relations that bondage brought to the surface, and how these relations reflected upon a larger societal discourse. Of further interest was the notion of a "Limit Experience", wherein the participant attempted to navigate the line between the most intense pleasure and nearly unbearable pain. While some have derided "Limit Experience" as a perverse manifestation of the Freudian "death instinct", Focault believed bondage could provide a safe and telling environment for studying this concept.



Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Dinner at the Sri Lankan Ambassador's Residence




With the Sri Lankan delegates from National Savings Bank of Sri Lanka (Mr. Perera and Chairman Gunaratne; Mr. Roshantha Jayatunge), His and Her Excellencies, Ambassadors from United Arab Emirates, Nigeria, Bangladesh, Mexico, Egypt (Im not sure if I miss anyone), the Asst. GM for Sofitel Philippine Hotel Plaza Mr. Mo Ihsan, and the wonderful hosts His Excellency the Ambassador of Sri Lanka WM Senevirathna and his lovely spouse.

Monday, March 26, 2007

Rockwell Foolin'




Deviance




1. La Mano


I have to let you into some of my little secrets. I have a hand fetish. Yes, I holding hands turn me on - almost similar to what foot fetishists might experience- I have a love affair with beautiful hands - smooth or rough, large or small - caressing hands just totally excite me in a surreal and sexual way. There is something utterly sexy about holding your partner's hands while you are trippin the light fantastic under the immaculate sheets only smeared with sweat and the scent of sex. It is taking the ride of your life with someone by your side.


2. BDSM


Being pretty jaded in the shagging department, I have experimented self-suffocation and to some point I asked my partner to suffocate me with a pillow quite a few times (Boys and Girls- Don't try this at home!). I have always been fascinated by BDSM (Bondage-Domination-SadoMasochism) but being in a relatively conservative society, such are swept under the rug. Take my German friend S., he is one of the top executives in an IT startup based in Makati, he recounted his experience (back in Germany) of being tied down spread-eagled, blindfolded while a girl serviced him. The girl's boyfriend at the same time was cracking the cat-o-nine-tails at them while this is going on. Most might be appalled, believe me I was one of them - but quickly this descended into a level of fascination- like I was in a semi-trance. It's really funny how people dress up the part but has never really understood the philosophy behind BDSM. Perhaps it is perversion, but mostly I reckon, that it was sexual politics and power at play - by being tied down, one actually has been freed in spirit. It is a dangerous game for sure and utmost care must be practiced at all times.


3. Menage a Trois


Like the thin lines that I have been walking all the time, this has got to be one of the most challenging. I had been invited to a menage several times, and all of the times I had to decline. I thought I might not be able to handle it, but stubborn old me tells me to keep pushing the envelope over and over again. Should I or shouldn't I? The prospects are tantalizing.


 


 


 

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Compagnie XY- A Modern Circus

Start:     Mar 30, '07 9:00p
Location:     CCP Main Theater
Experience an Intensive and Poetic Performance of Acrobatic and Gymnastics.


Tickets at Alliance Francaise de Manille
Fax: 8993654
Email reservation@alliance.ph
Telephone: 8957883/8957441/8957757
Text/call: 09178928968

Special AFM Ticket Prices: Orchestra Center - PhP 200,Lower Box and Orchestra Sides - PhP 150, Upper Box and Balcony I Center PhP 100, Balcony I sides - PhP 75, Balcony II - PhP 50

Brought to you by The Embassy of France/Ambassade du France, Alstom, Lafarge, Alliance Francaise de Manille

Helicopter Ride!!

Start:     Apr 14, '07 10:00a
End:     Apr 21, '07
Location:     CL
Tentative!

UW Rugby

Start:     Mar 24, '07 08:00a
Location:     RMSC Diving Pool

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Stillness




Moments of peace in the midst of a very busy conference.

Monday, March 19, 2007

ING rate Philippines as one of Asia's top 3 investment sites







Philippines, one of Asia’s top 3 sites

DUTCH financial giant ING has chosen the Philippines as one of the top three investment sites in the Asia-Pacific region this year.

Hong Kong-based ING Investment Management regional head of equity Nicholas Toovey on Friday endorsed the Philippines to investors for the second straight year, saying equities would likely outperform bonds in the world’s fastest growing region this year.

Toovey’s top three market picks are the Philippines, Hong Kong and Taiwan.

Last year, his choices were Hong Kong and Malaysia.

ING Investment’s chief investment officer in the Philippines, Paul Joseph Garcia, said ING’s 12-month view showed corporate profits would surge by about 20 percent this year and lift the main-share Philippine Stock Exchange index (Phisix).

He said the Phisix -- now trading at its best level in 10 years -- could reach even 3,500-3,700 points by the fourth quarter of the year.

The Phisix peaked near 3,400 points just before the Asian crisis 10 years ago.

“Macroeconomic fundamentals are supportive of higher corporate earnings this year, based on expansion of net margins, especially with interest rates at historical low,” Garcia said.

He said he expected inflation to ease further and the gross domestic product to grow by over 5.5 percent this year. He added that the favorable interest rate regime -- thanks to the government’s success in applying financial reform measures -- would benefit debt-ridden corporations.

The elections oral in May are also expected to boost incomes, with about 5,000 candidates spending for their respective campaigns and with the government doing some economic pump-priming.

Garcia estimated election spending at P5-P10 billion that would be infused into the economy and the government’s infrastructure spending at over 3.0-4.0 percent of GDP.

“There will be some catching up that’s going to be very supportive of infrastructure-related stocks,” he said. “We’re also more bullish on cyclical stocks. We favor banks and property issues.”

In the years ahead, he said, the property market will likely be more buoyant and banks are expected to be more aggressive in lending to small and medium-scale enterprises and mid-sized corporations.

Garcia said Toovey’s picks for this year were a “good call.”

On his choice of Hong Kong for this year, Toovey said, “There are a lot of Chinese stocks listed in Hong Kong, and they have a lot of momentum at the moment.

Hong Kong stocks “are actually becoming quite expensive, but investors don’t seem to be worried about that,” he said.

Toovey added that there were many new corporate issues and a sharp expansion in corporate activity in Hong Kong.

Malaysia was also chosen as top investment site this year because of a huge market upside, he said.

“The cheapest market is Thailand, purely based on value ... that’s where we would usually place bets,” Toovey said. “But as you know, there are a lot of complications there right now.”

The Thai central bank recently introduced fresh capital controls to curb the Thai baht’s sharp appreciation.

Doris C. Dumlao, with INQUIRER.net

and from an ING Report:

Manager’s Report

Philippine stocks were off to a strong start. The Philippine Composite Index
(PSEi) opened 2007 on a strong note, rising 8.6% past the 3,000 level for the first
time since April 1997. As T-bill rates fell to unprecedented lows, investors
continued to pour money into the Philippine equities market – with average daily
turnover soaring 22% in the month of January to US$80mn.


Inspired by favorable macro news flow. The budget deficit came in at P62bn
for 2006, vs the programmed deficit of P125bn. Full-year GDP growth was at
5.4%. Meanwhile the Monetary Board kept the tiering system in place, hinting that
it would keep policy rates steady until after the May elections. December inflation
was announced on the lower end of expectations at 4.3%, on easing oil prices
and a strengthening PHP (at P48.88/USD month-end). OFW remittances grew
27.8% YoY and hit above the US$1bn mark for the seventh straight month in
November. Driven by a benign inflation outlook, the 91-day T-bill rate fell 167bps
to a record 3.17%.


Banks, construction and power companies again led gains. With record-low
interest rates seen increasing loan demand, the banking sector drew interest.
RCBC outperformed, soaring 64.6% after announcing new management and a
follow-on share offer. Benpres (+43.5%), together with subsidiaries First Phil
Holdings (+19.8%) and Meralco (+29.1%), surged for a second month following
the recent Supreme Court decision upholding its distribution rate hike.
Construction firm EEI also rose 41.3% after announcing a stock-rights offer, with
the approval of the 2007 budget calling to double infrastructure spending through
2010.


Rosy full-year targets remain intact, amidst potential volatility. We maintain
our year-end PSEi target of 3,570 points, as stronger economic growth and lower
inflation/refinancing rates support an environment conducive to corporate revenue
growth, lower costs and, ultimately, stronger corporate earnings. Following the
market’s strong rally month-to-date, however, we can expect some volatility –
especially approaching the May elections. Meantime, focus could shift to second
& third-liners. Our favored sectors are banks, property, infrastructure, power and
consumer.



Also:

Philippines' production of Copper and Gold has also significantly risen with reports of having 2006 production of Gold at the Canatuan Mine in Zamboanga Peninsula hitting 112% compared to its previous year.










Sunday, March 18, 2007

Daniel Greniman's Farewell

Start:     Mar 23, '07 9:00p
End:     Mar 25, '07
Location:     "The Apartment", Akle Street, San Antonio Village, Makati City
Self-explanatory




Dont forget to bring your favorite poison.:P

Manila Exhale. Series 3.

A Requiem for a Dream.

Tonight, I will bury a dream.
As the winds of fate has carried the cruel message of loss,
I will stand by its graveyard, catching the wafts of death
of a dying star I was a fool of wishing on once.

Tonight, again, I will bury a part of me.
And I want you to know, because part of me
was you.
Part of it was your deepest aquamarine eyes I've
drowned several times,
your most dazzling smiles that made my knees
weak and my voice tremble,
and the scent of your love that told me not to let go.

But here I am again, I bury a fondest wish.
And as I mourn the irreparable loss of what could have been,
I grieve, and grieve because I love you so deeply still,
deeper than the very grave that I have dug for that one dream.





Saturday, March 17, 2007

AIESEC Alumni Reunion

Start:     Mar 24, '07 7:30p
Location:     One LaFayette Square, 132 LP Leviste cor. Sedeño Streets, Salcedo Village, Makati City
AIESEC in the Philippines Alumni Homecoming

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Manila Exhale. Series 2.

What are your kisses worth?

It is worth more than the diamond lights
across this pulsating and warm
February night!

It besieges and engulfs me,
as I drown in the reverie of my
solitary bed.